Death, Loss, Grief: A Reading List
Books for young people are in Fenn House. Resources for adults are in the sanctuary building, either in the upstairs meeting room or the fellowship hall downstairs. Check our online catalog for details.
For Young People
Subtopics: Death of family member, Death of pet, What is death?
Picture Books
Alvarez, Julia. Where Do They Go?. JUV E ALV
Brown, Margaret Wise. The Dead Bird. JUV E BRO
Bunting, Eve. The Memory String. JUV E BUN
Buscaglia, Leo F. The Fall Of Freddie The Leaf : A Story Of Life For All Ages. JUV FIC BUS
Carson, Jo. You Hold Me And I’ll Hold You. JUV E CAR
Clifton, Lucille. Everett Anderson’s Goodbye. JUV E CLI
De Paola, Tomie. Nana Upstairs & Nana Downstairs. JUV E DEP
Donovan, Jane Monroe. Winter’s Gift. JUV E DON
Fry, Virginia Lynn. Part Of Me Died, Too: Stories Of Creative Survival Among Bereaved Children And Teenagers. JUV 155.9 FRY
Howe, James. Kaddish For Grandpa In Jesus’ Name, Amen. JUV E HOW
Joosse, Barbara M. Ghost Wings. JUV E JOO
The Kids’ Book About Death And Dying. JUV 155.9 KID
Miles, Miska. Annie and the Old One. JUV E MIL
Müller, Birte. Felipa and the Day of the Dead. JUV E MUL
Newman, Leslea. Too Far Away To Touch. JUV E NEW
Oskarsson, Bárður,The Flat Rabbit. JUV E OSK
Otoshi, Kathryn. Two. JUV E OTO
Portnoy, Mindy Avra. Where Do People Go When They Die?. JUV E POR
Ringtved, Glenn. Cry, Heart, But Never Break. JUV E RIN
Soros, Barbara. Tenzin’s Deer. JUV E SOR
Viorst, Judith. Tenth Good Thing About Barney. JUV E VIO
White Deer of Autumn. Great Change. JUV E WHI
Wild, Margaret. Toby. JUV E WIL
Wood, Douglas. Grandad’s Prayers Of The Earth. JUV E WOO
Non-Fiction
About Death: Unitarian Universalist Book For Kids. 155.9 ABO
Anderson, Lydia. Death. JUV 155.937 AND
Fahs, Sophia Lyon. Beginnings of Earth, Sky, Life, Death: Stories Ancient and Modern.JUV 291.212 FAH confirm.
Bratman, Fred. Everything You Need To Know When A Parent Dies. JUV 155.9 BRA
Brown, Laurene Krasny. When Dinosaurs Die : A Guide To Understanding Death. JUV 155.9 BRO
Fry, Virginia. Part of Me Died, Too: Stories Of Creative Survival Among Bereaved Children And Teenagers. 155.9 FRY
Hyde, Margaret O. Meeting Death. JUV 306.9 HYD
Romain, Trevor. What On Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies?. JUV 155.937 ROM
Smid, Emmi. Luna’s Red Hat : An Illustrated Storybook To Help Children Cope With Loss And Suicide. JUV 155.9 SMI
Stickney, Doris. Water Bugs And Dragonflies : Explaining Death To Young Children. JUV 306.9 STI
Talking About Death With Children
Goldman, Linda. Great Answers To Difficult Questions About Death : What Children Need To Know. 155.9 GOL
Grollman, Earl A. Explaining Death To Children. 155.4 GRO
Grollman, Earl A. Talking About Death : A Dialogue Between Parent And Child. 155.937 GRO
See also picture book and non-fiction titles above.
For Adults
Subtopics: Serious illness, Death, Dying, End of Life, Grieving, Comforting
Acosta, Judith. The Worst Is Over : What To Say When Every Moment Counts. 615.851 ACO
Albom, Mitch. Tuesdays With Morrie : An Old Man, A Young Man, And Life’s Greatest Lesson. 378.1 ALB
Belletini, Mark. Nothing Gold Can Stay : The Colors Of Grief. 248.866 BEL
Braestrup, Kate. Anchor & Flares : A Memoir of Motherhood, Hope, and Service. 204 BRA
Braestrup, Kate. Beginner’s Grace : Bringing Prayer To Life. 248.32 BRA
Brooks, Melanie. Writing Hard Stories : Celebrated Memoirists Who Shaped Art From Trauma. 808.06 BRO
Byock, Ira. The Best Care Possible : A Physician’s Quest To Transform Care Through The End Of Life. 616.029 BYO
Byock, Ira. Dying Well : The Prospect For Growth At The End Of Life. 306.88 BYO
Callanan, Maggie. Final Gifts : Understanding The Special Awareness, Needs, And Communications Of The Dying. 155.937 CAL
Chast, Roz. Can’t We Talk About Something More Pleasant?: A Memoir. 306.874092 CHA
Church, F. Forrester. The Cathedral Of The World : A Universalist Theology. 230.9132 CHU
Church, F. Forrester. Love & Death : My Journey Through The Valley Of The Shadow. 289.1092 CHU
Cousins, Norman. Anatomy Of An Illness As Perceived By The Patient : Reflections On Healing And Regeneration.362.19 COU
Cousins, Norman. The Celebration Of Life; A Dialogue On Immortality And Infinity. 128.5 COU
Cope, Denys. Dying : A Natural Passage. 155.937 COP
Crowe, Kelsey. There Is No Good Card For This : What To Say And Do When Life Is Scary, Awful, And Unfair To People You Love. 155.93 CRO
Cryer, Dan. Being Alive And Having To Die : The Spiritual Odyssey Of Forrest Church. 289.1092 CRY
Gawande, Atul. Being Mortal : Medicine And What Matters In The End. 362.175 GAW
Gooding, Margaret K. A Stepping-Stone Year : A Program For Eight-To-Ten Year Olds. 268.432 GOO (Fenn R.E. office)
Grollman, Earl A. Living When A Loved One Has Died. 155.937 GRO
Hamilton-Holway, Barbara. Who Will Remember Me?: A Daughter’s Memoir Of Grief And Recovery. 248.866092 HAM
How To Die In Oregon. 179.7 HOW
Kiernan, Stephen P. Last Rights : Rescuing The End Of Life From The Medical System. 179.7 KIE
King, Martin Luther. A Gift Of Love : Sermons From Strength To Love And Other Preachings. 252.061 KIN
Kowalski, Gary A. Goodbye, Friend : Healing Wisdom For Anyone Who Has Ever Lost A Pet. 155.9 KOW
Kreis, Bernadine. Up From Grief; Patterns Of Recovery 131.33 KRE
Lembke, Janet. The Quality Of Life : Living Well, Dying Well. 362.175 LEM
Lewis, C. S. A Grief Observed. 242.4 LEW
Manning, Doug. Don’t Take My Grief Away : What To Do When You Lose A Loved One. 248.86 MAN
McCormack, Jerusha Hull. Grieving : A Beginner’s Guide. 155.937 MCC
Miller, Brenda., The Pen And The Bell : Mindful Writing In A Busy World. 808.02019 MIL
Miller, William A. When Going To Pieces Holds You Together. 155.937 MIL
Moon, Susan. This Is Getting Old : Zen Thoughts On Aging With Humor And Dignity. 294.3440846 MOO
Moore, Thomas. Ageless Soul : The Lifelong Journey Toward Meaning And Joy. 155.67 MOO
Muesse, Mark W. Practicing Mindfulness: An Introduction to Meditation. 294.344 MUE
Neumann, Ann. The Good Death : An Exploration Of Dying In America. 304.6 NEU
Pausch, Randy. The Last Lecture. 004.092 PAU
Robinson, Christine C. Heart To Heart : Fourteen Gatherings For Reflection And Sharing. 253.7 ROB
Robinson, Christine C. Soul To Soul : Fourteen Gatherings For Reflection And Sharing. 250 ROB
Rosenberg, Larry. Living In The Light Of Death : On The Art Of Being Truly Alive. 294.3444 ROS
Seaburg, Carl. Great Occasions; Readings For The Celebration Of Birth, Coming-Of-Age, Marriage, And Death. 808.8 SEA
Shaffer, Nancy. While Still There Is Light : Writings From A Minister Facing Death. 289.1092 SCH
Walker, Val. The Art Of Comforting : What To Say And Do For People In Distress. 177.7 WAL
Wilber, Ken. Grace And Grit : Spirituality And Healing In The Life And Death Of Treya Killam Wilber. 362.1969940092 WIL
York, Sarah. Remembering Well : Rituals For Celebrating Life And Mourning Death. 291.38 YOR
Keywords: death, dying, grief, grieving, healing, hope, loss, bereavement, comforting, solace. See also aging, end of life.
Consider:
How Lovely The Ruins : inspirational Poems And Words For Difficult Times. 808.8 HOW
Last update: 6 November 2018